Here’s to the mothers with the brilliant kids who aren’t always appreciated for their creativity, bravery, and strength.

Children with extreme levels of defiance don’t comply with most limits, boundaries or consequences. This is because they are focused on being in control. They can thrive on conflict, and if they are confronted with a boundary or limitation they may react violently. The constant conflict can wear a parent down.

Demanding people do not respect personal boundaries. Therefore, we have to respect our own boundaries so that we aren’t drained by their energetic configurations – which can range from meanness, to throwing tantrums, or using intimidation or tears to get what they feel entitled to.